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I’m insecure in my relationship

Gd morning MA,  pls I need your advice. I’ve been dating my bf for a year and some months now. We are literally best friends. We love each other a lot. After 7 months of dating I found out he had been talking to a girl. He told her he did not have a gf and he liked her. When I found out I got really hurt, he apologized and stopped. I found comfort in the arms of other guys while still with him. I did not believe the person I had come and for some reason I had no remorse. It helped me to numb the pain. I finally stopped when I saw that he was putting in effort into building our relationship. The next instance was when I got off work and decided to stop at his place because I have his keys. I met him home with a girl. I know her and she has a few months old baby. I asked him when she left that why was she at his place, he said she needed to talk to him about something and they are friends. My question was why go pick her up and bring to your place, then go drop her off? She could take an Uber. Is she that important to u? That same evening the girl texted him and he immediately deleted the message without reading it. I asked him why delete it if she is just your friend. He said because he already knew what she wanted to say. All this has made me to be insecure in the relationship. I spend every weekend with him, he doesn’t get strange calls. Matter of fact I stay on my phone more than he does cuz I’m on social media and he’s not. we are planning on getting married in the coming year but a week cannot go by that I don’t think of breaking up with him, not because I don’t love him but because I feel like he will hurt me really badly. 90% of the time we fight it’s because my insecurities get the best of me and I start picking little fights. I don’t trust him and I’m working on it. I know I’m not a saint but I’m so confused. He is an amazing guy, hardworking and family oriented. There’s nothing I ask from him that he won’t give me. He goes to work and comes back home at the same time every day ? I’m I over reacting?

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Edwin Confidence Nzube is a 28 years old relationship Expert, a wife. She is dedicated in helping young people to take pleasure in understanding and love their relationship. She\'s longing to step off succession that authorize/enables young people to reduce nagativity towards their relationship and embrace deliberate fulfilled lives permeated with affection, satisfaction and acceptance
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Edwin Confidence Nzube is a 28 years old relationship Expert, a wife. She is dedicated in helping young people to take pleasure in understanding and love their relationship. She\'s longing to step off succession that authorize/enables young people to reduce nagativity towards their relationship and embrace deliberate fulfilled lives permeated with affection, satisfaction and acceptance
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