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My fiance is too spiritual and don’t wanna come see my parents….

I am beyond pissed @ the moment. My fiance doesn’t want to go see my parents for introduction, claiming he’s busy and all, that he would rather have the list sent to him and send the things then just come for the traditional wedding and to me that’s bottom line no regard for my parents. He quite busy, he runs an oil and gas firm but then I feel that’s not an excuse I initially told my dad and he says he has to come and he is refusing to, after I insisted on why he doesn’t want to, he told me he prayed about it and that something bad will happen if my father’s people see him being that they are very diabolical. He has a strong relationship with GOD that even I admire .but then I feel he’s just being too spiritual because no dad will give their daughter out in marriage without first seeing the man.
Everything always has to go his way. We did a court wedding without telling my parents or any of my family or his being a witness because he wants us to travel out of the country immediately after marriage .Again he never gave me a formal proposal, it was a night before the court wedding I saw a wedding band and an engagement ring. I insisted he still do a formal proposal and he says I like showing off on social media too much. I let it slide because the ring was gorgeous. few weeks back he told me he won’t be able to travel with me again that I’d go alone because of his work. Am still very angry about him wanting to send me off to a foreign country all by myself. Also its just the traditional wedding we will be doing here. The white will be outside of the country devoid of both family and loved ones, just the two of us, and I don’t like the idea one bit.
He keeps imposing things on me, like I don’t have a say in how my life will be, what I want doesn’t matter. I told him no introduction no marriage, he says being childish. Am 25 he’s 31. Am I being too paranoid and dramatic about this or what do you all think?

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Edwin Confidence Nzube is a 28 years old relationship Expert, a wife. She is dedicated in helping young people to take pleasure in understanding and love their relationship. She\'s longing to step off succession that authorize/enables young people to reduce nagativity towards their relationship and embrace deliberate fulfilled lives permeated with affection, satisfaction and acceptance
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Edwin Confidence Nzube is a 28 years old relationship Expert, a wife. She is dedicated in helping young people to take pleasure in understanding and love their relationship. She\'s longing to step off succession that authorize/enables young people to reduce nagativity towards their relationship and embrace deliberate fulfilled lives permeated with affection, satisfaction and acceptance
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